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Retirement is obsolete. What's
next?
With Americans living longer, healthier lives, the conventional idea of retirement is
obsolete. A vast population
of people 50 to 65 wants to know "What's next?" The old expectation of
post-career life was, "Throw in the towel, rest, play and make room for the
young and able." No way this population is going down that road.
Many, like Marika and Howard
Stone, discover second careers, start their own businesses, or go back to school.
Too Young to Retire
answers their burning question with resources, inspiration and good humor. Enlightening exercises and workbook pages as well
as a comprehensive list of publications, home exchange organizations, and websites are
included to assist readers in making meaningful choices. In bookstores and online.
- Paperback: 176 pages
; Dimensions (in inches): 0.53 x 8.18 x 5.12
- Publisher: Plume;
Revised edition (May 4, 2004), $13.
- ISBN: 0452285577
Reviews
for Too Young to Retire (Plume 2004)
From Publishers Weekly
As a couple
approaching retirement age, the authors came to the realization that "retirement was
a great place to visit, but who in their right mind would want to live there?" And so
they skipped the Sunbelt retirement and set out to start a new chapter in their lives,
which involved the creation of a website (2young2retire.com) and the writing of this book
to encourage others to stay in the workforce after 65. Written in a friendly,
understanding tone, this volume is both inspirational and realistic. It addresses
practical issues like money and provides an extensive list of resources for getting
started and formulating ideas. Each chapter also includes a "try this" section,
which provides simple and doable ideas for making small life changes on the way to
achieving goals. And, indeed, the book does include 101 specific ideas for vocations and
avocations to pursuecake decorator, computer tutor, ghostwriter, nanny, park ranger,
wedding planner and many more. The authors also explain what is perhaps the ultimate
incentive for staying engaged and active: its good for health and longevity. And
they offer a host of tips for staying as healthy as possible so would-be-retirees can
fully enjoy this fantastic stage of life.
Copyright © Reed
Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.
Fred Brock, The New York
Times
"This
little gem of a book offers sage advice."
There's little question that the traditional concept of retirement a k a being on
vacation for the rest of your life is rapidly changing to reflect the more
proactive mind-set of the baby boomers, as well as the economic realities of shrinking
pensions and paltry savings.
Tomorrow's
retirees are going to be anything but on a permanent holiday, and two recent books aim to
provide some emotional and psychological guidance for a time of life that for many may
become known as a postwork career.
The first,
"Too Young to Retire," by Marika and Howard Stone, is an offshoot of a
Web site the authors run for retirees and those with aspirations to retire. The site,
www.2young2retire.com, includes stories about ordinary people who, instead of accepting
traditional retirement, have made transitions to new and what they consider more
interesting careers and lives.
This little
gem of a book offers sage advice on everything from downsizing to diet and exercise. One
of my favorite chapters "101 Opportunities for the Open-Minded"
contains a list of new career opportunities that includes activities as diverse as
astrology, dog walking and teaching. In many cases, a Web address is provided to help you
start.
The Stones
practice what they preach. Mr. Stone, 68, left a marketing career at a publishing company
to start the 2young2retire Web site in 1998; Mrs. Stone, 61, is a former freelance
business writer who now teaches yoga.
Anne
Fisher, ASK
ANNIE, Fortune.com
'I Took Early RetirementBut I'm Not Ready to
Retire'
The question of what to do in 'retirement' is getting more
common. The co-authors of a new book have (count 'em) 101 suggestions.
Dear Annie:
Last year, after a 34-year-career with the same company (I'm almost 56), I took advantage
of a generous early-retirement package my employer was offering. It seemed like a great
idea at the time, and gives me enough financial security that I don't really have to work
anymore, but there's just one problem: I'm bored to tears. Playing golf and taking road
trips was fun for a few months, and I am doing some volunteer work I find satisfying, but
I need more. How can I figure out what to do next? I don't want another high-pressure job
(even assuming I could find one at my age). Any thoughts?
Not Ready for a Rocking Chair
Dear Not
Ready:
You'd be surprised (or then again, maybe you wouldn't) how often people ask me
thisand I'm pleased to say there's a new book that may help provide some answers.
It's Too Young to Retire: 101 Ways to Start the Rest of Your Life (Plume, $13), by
husband-and-wife authors Marika and Howard Stone. The Stones know where you're coming
from. Howard had a decades-long career in ad sales and magazine publishing, while Marika
worked as a journalist, public-relations exec, and English teacher. Then they
retiredand were soon, they recall, "bored out of our skulls." So they
launched second careers. Howard got certified as a life coach and motivational speaker at
age 64; Marika is editor-in-chief of a website you may want to check out, www.2young2retire.com.
The Stones would like to see the word
"retirement" expunged from the language. "Look it up," they write.
"It means 'withdraw' or 'retreat.' Doesn't 'renaissance' or 'graduation' or
'transition' better describe your post-career life?" They note that retirement as we
usually think of it "is a relatively new concept.... A few generations ago, before
Social Security and full-time leisure became embedded as the 'norm,' elders remained
productive members of society." And at almost 56, with life expectancies what they
are today, you're not even really an "elder" yet, are you?
Both Too Young to Retire and the
website are loaded with ideas that may spark some of your ownincluding dozens of
case studies of people who have built great second careers doing what they love. One
example: Danielle Bernstein, 55, after a long career in computers, started a new life
based on her passion for hiking. She founded a nonprofit organization called Hiker to
Hiker that encourages wilderness conservation. J. Leonard Hornstein, a former
juvenile-court judge, stepped down from the bench in 1992 at age 62 and has since had two
new careers: first as a law professor, and now, after getting the necessary certificate,
as an elementary-school teacher.
How can you get started down the path of
identifying what you'd like to do next? The authors recommend these four initial steps:
-
Sit down with a pen and paper (or a
laptop, or however you're most comfortable) and write a heading: My Dream Job. Then write
down everything you can about your ideal job, using as much detail as you can. Write
without stopping or editing until you run out of things to say. "Free-writing is a
technique that works magic. The goal isn't perfection or eloquence, but truth," the
authors write. "Don't worry. You're not obliged to share this with anyone."
-
Now think: Where in your life are you
already giving expression to some elements of your dream job? "Spread a wide net and
don't get hung up on whether you're getting paid for your labor. What you're after is
something you can build on, no matter how small or insignificant it might seem at
first."
-
What one step can you take in the next
week to explore your idea more fully? "It doesn't have to be much more than a phone
call, half an hour surfing the Internet, or an hour at the library," just to get your
juices flowing.
-
Create a business card for the career or
business you've chosen. (Use a Word or WordPerfect template, then print a couple of sheets
on Avery 8371 cards available at most office-supply stores.) "Making your dream
concrete, in even a small way, can make it feel almost inevitable."
After 34 years with one company, it may
be hard for you to do what car designers call "blue-sky thinking," letting your
imagination run where it will. Keep at it until you envision something that really gets
your motor running. And at this point in your life, with a financial cushion to fall back
on, you don't need to play it too safe. As hockey superstar Wayne Gretzky once told a
reporter, "I miss 100% of the shots I don't take."
http://www.fortune.com/fortune/annie
Send questions to askannie@fortunemail.com.
James A. Cox, MidWest
Book Review
"An exciting and dynamic self-help instructional guide . . . highly recommended
reading."
Motivational speaker Howard Stone and yoga
teacher Marika Stone team up in Too Young To Retire: An Off-The-Road Map To The Rest
Of Your Life to present readers with a down-to-earth instructional guide which is
drawn from the authors own lives as a couple, their research, and several assorted case
histories in order to present practical and effective alternatives to retirement --
including stimulating work and community service. From opportunities to earn money or
participate in business, to volunteering one's time, to traveling for fun and profit, Too
Young To Retire is an exciting and dynamic self-help instructional guide for charting
new possibilities for the future and highly recommended reading -- especially for anyone
over the age of 62 and not ready for the rocking chair/nursing home slide into oblivion.
Warren Boroson, Daily Record
" ... an easy-to-read, lively book, with
plenty of fresh, useful advice."
A new book by Marika and Howard Stone, called "Too
Young to Retire" (A Plume Book, 2004), argues persuasively against retirement - even
for people with sunny dispositions.
Retirement, they maintain, is "a social experiment
that has outlived its promise." They recommend that people older than 50 continue
working - ideally in their dream job but even volunteer work will do.
The couple urge people to choose "daring adventures
over the risk-averse monotony their parents settled for."
Work as we have known it "is gasping its last, which
means that retirement in the sense it has been understood since 1935, is most certainly
defunct."
In their short (157 pages) book, the Stones give case
histories of people who shucked boring, high-paying jobs to follow their bliss
they
provide all sort of pep talks
they argue that you need far less money to retire on
than you think, if you live more simply
and they even castigate certain types of
vacations: "The problem with a luxury cruise or exclusive resort is that it can
insulate you from the experiences you travel for."
A few years ago, they were worried about their retirement.
"Could we idle away the hours making small talk,
puttering around the garden, decorating or redecorating our condo, and waiting for visits
from our (yet unborn) grandchildren to break the tedium of a life that was without
direction or purpose?"
Howard had been in international advertising and magazine
publishing; Marika had been a journalist, English teacher and so forth.
Today, she's the director of a Web site,
www.2young2retire.com, and a certified Kripalu yoga teacher. Howard is a certified life
coach.
I would have liked the book even more if the authors had
provided more financial advice (such as: consider a no-load life-cycle fund) and engaged
in less sermonizing ("Think lovely thoughts. Adopt an attitude of gratitude. Seek out
laughter every day").
But it's an easy-to-read, lively book, with plenty of
fresh, useful advice.
Author
Bios
Howard
Stone is co-founder of 2young2retire and its spiritual center. He ended a
long career in international advertising sales and publishing and became a life coach at
age 64. Rejecting the idea of retirement -- a great place to visit but who would
want to live there -- he built a coaching practice on helping other mature people discover
their own later life callings and passions. Motivational speaking, coaching, writing
and www.2young2retire.com are his. He is
a member of NextAge Speakers, America's only agency featuring nationally
recognized experts in the field of longevity. Too Young to Retire, which he
co-authored with his wife and partner, Marika, is his first book.

Interview or book Howard
to speak about:
Retiring retirement and
facing "what's next"
Life planning after 50
-- It's more than the money
How to flunk
retirement and find your life's work
Contact: howard@2young2retire.com
Marika Stone, co-founder of
2young2retire and its editor- in-chief, has been a teacher of English and writing,
journalist, PR account executive, and small business owner with clients that included
Eastman Kodak and Sony. Her work has been published in Forbes, Careerjournal.com (Dow
Jones), Neatwomeninc.com, Seniority.co.uk., the Sunday Times (London), and scores of trade
journals. She intended to "retire" and write a family history. That plan
is on hold while she pursues the mission of retiring retirement, ending ageism in the
workplace, and helping people -- especially women of a certain age -- achieve their full
potential. She has three avenues for this: Too Young to Retire (the
book), the website www.2young2retire.com,
and the teaching of yoga. She is dual-certified as a Kripalu Yoga instructor
and Thai Yoga bodyworker.

Interview Marika
on the following:
It's not working:
Finding balance. Why it matters now and later.
Toward wellness:
Best strategies for the 50+ body/mind
Getting published is just
a good start
Contact: marika@2young2retire.com
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